Protecting Yourself from Criminals:

• Date background verified members first. Thousands of members on SeekingArrangement have already been Background Verified by Optimum Screening.
• SeekingArrangement does not perform background checks on every member, so please proceed with caution.
• Do your own research, and always find out more about someone before you decide to meet them.
• Don’t discuss sex in your SeekingArrangement profile description or messages you send to members.

Warning About Minors:

SeekingArrangement.com is for users who are 18 years of age or older.

Having an arrangement with a minor is considered illegal. If you suspect a member to be underage, please ask for a photo ID, or report such members to Customer Support, and we will verify their age for you.

Warning About Sex Opportunists:

Sex opportunists are Sugar Daddies or Sugar Mommas who promise to give you the world, but their only goal is to have sex with you, and not to form a solid arrangement. Here are some tips to avoid being taken advantage of by a sex opportunist:

• Don’t trust anyone until they have earned your trust, especially when they promise a large allowance.
• Don’t have sex on the first date, get to know the person first.
• Don’t fall for a “test-drive”. You are not a car, and they are not shopping for one. If someone ask for a test drive, they just want sex with you once, and never see you again.

Here are some common tricks used by sex opportunists:

• Sugar Daddy promises gifts of hefty allowances, spends the night with the SB and disappears after (by giving all sorts of excuses) without ever giving any allowances.  Excuses may include:
• I have an emergency, I need to go.
• I have a business meeting, I need to leave.
• I don’t have cash, can I send you the allowance later?
• Sudden attack of guilt, says he feels guilty he cheated on his wife, then chases you out the door.

Warning About Financial Opportunists:

Financial opportunists are attractive women or men who are only after your money. Their goal is to scam you, and they have no intention of ever having a relationship with you. Here are some tips to avoid being taken advantage of by a financial opportunist:

• Never ever send money to anyone you have not met in person, regardless of the reason, and there will be many.
• If someone says she is currently in Nigeria, Ghana or Philippines and asks for money, proceed with caution. Verify all information with extreme scrutiny.

Here are some common tricks used by financial opportunists. She/He asks for money for various reasons, and if you send the money you will never hear from her again:

• I need money to prove you are a real Sugar Daddy/Momma and are ready to spoil me.
• I need money for a spa day to look gorgeous when I meet you.
• I need money for travel expenses.
• I need money for an emergency surgery for myself or a family member etc.
• I need money because my phone is broken/stolen, or I don’t have minutes, but I really want to call you.