When meeting someone for the first time, meet them for lunch or coffee during the day.
Always let your family or friends know before you meet someone the first time. Let them know where, when, and who you will be meeting.
Don’t accept personal checks or MoneyGram as a form of allowance. Members may cancel these payments without notice.
Don’t disclose your personal banking information, including account numbers or passwords.
Take Action
Report members who request sexual offers in exchange for money.
Report members who identify themselves as escorts or prostitutes since this is strictly against our terms of use.
Report any member guilty of online harassment.
Report anyone who asks for money upfront and before meeting in person. This includes, but is not limited to sob stories asking for money, and individuals needing to pay their cell phone bills.
Report members who ask for your address so they can send you gifts.
Report members who ask for your bank account details, including account numbers or passwords.
Report any members who are looking for individuals under 18 years of age.
Report any members who tell you that they are under 18 years of age.
If you believe you are a victim of human trafficking or may have information about a potential trafficking situation, please contact the National Human Trafficking Hotline at (888) 373-7888 or via SMS “BEFREE”/233733 (Text "HELP" or "INFO").
To report suspected human trafficking to Federal law enforcement, please call (866) 347-2423.
If you or someone you know is in immediate danger, please call 911.
Disclaimer: Seeking in no way, shape, or form supports escorts or prostitutes using our website for personal gain. Profiles suspected of promoting this behavior will be addressed by the Seeking Misconduct Team and banned from our website.