What it Means to be a

Sugar Baby

A Seeking.com™ Sugar Baby, what we call an Attractive Member, is an empowered individual with exquisite taste and an appetite for a relationship filled with new experiences and a taste of the good life. She’s not constrained by traditional definitions of relationships and is Seeking to create a Relationship on Her Terms that perfectly fits her expanding horizons, desires and goals. She’s ambitious and appreciates the value of Finding a Successful Member who can be a mentor/teacher, confidante, friend, and lover and even a business partner and investor in her future.

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    Goal Driven Dating

    The Seeking.com Sugar Baby is an individual seeking a real relationship, mentorship, and support. There is no "typical" Sugar Baby since anyone who is looking to date someone who can help them achieve their goals could be classed as one. Because all Seeking.com users are looking for Relationships on Your Terms, there’s a transparency and openness on Seeking.com, which often results in genuine feelings of love and long-term commitment.

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    College Educated or College-Bound

    It’s no secret that College educated individuals and college students make up a significant portion of Seeking.com user base. Whether a relationship with a Seeking.com Sugar Daddy will help our Attractive members worry a little less about her tuition and bills, or help her to build a professional network of contacts, one thing is for sure — Seeking.com is the #1 website for Finding a Relationship on Your Terms.

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    Modern Relationships With Traditional Values

    Seeking.com Sugar Babies do not want to be in monotonous, traditional relationships prescribed by society — that no longer works today. Rather, she is seeking a modern relationship — one that is different and matches her ambition and drive — with a romantic partner who can play the traditional role of provider or gentleman, without placing unreasonable limitations on personal growth. Seeking.com Sugar Babies appreciates the value of Finding a real relationship with someone who can help them thrive.

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    Empowered Dating

    The Seeking.com Sugar Baby is empowered, because she is unafraid of setting a higher standard of whom they want in a romantic relationship hypergamy , and doing what is necessary to find that — even if society frowns on their approach. Our Attractive members are early adopters of the Seeking.com approach to dating, one that is based on an approach of honesty, fairness, and the belief that everyone can find those who will love them for who they really are.


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What a Seeking.com Sugar Baby Is Not:

  • Gold Digger: The Seeking.com Sugar Baby is attracted to success and generosity because she is a sapiosexual, and not because she is a gold digger. There is a big difference between those who are attracted to someone solely for their money ("gold diggers"), versus those who are attracted to the personality and nature of someone who is successful and wealthy. Our community is one where Attractive members are goal diggers , not gold diggers.
  • Transactional: Our version of a "sugar baby" is not the same as what you find on other dating websites. The Seeking.com Sugar Baby is NOT looking for pay-per-meet situations or transactional relationships. Instead, our Attractive members are looking for hypergamous relationships with financially supportive partners, or providers, who have the means to help them with the cost of living or education, or those who can afford the lifestyle they desire.
  • Job or Occupation: The Seeking.com Sugar Baby understands that the term "sugar baby" is synonymous with the term "girlfriend" or "boyfriend" because being a "sugar baby" is not a job or an occupation. If you are on our website and refer to "earning" money, then the Seeking.com community is NOT right for you. If you are looking for a genuine hypergamous relationship where a partner is a provider, then this website is for you.
  • Entitled: Just because you are attractive and beautiful does not mean you are entitled, self important, or self absorbed. The attractive member of our community respects diversity and is expected to be polite and courteous. They understand that not everyone is a match, but they are graceful in their response, even when others are rude. Our ideal attractive members have little ego, and choose instead to be humble and classy.

Note: If you encounter Attractive members on our website who do not meet the above standards we have set for our community, please report them using our user-reporting tools. While other dating websites may be tolerant of such behaviors, we believe the Seeking.com Sugar Baby is a different breed.

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