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General Safety Tips

  • When meeting someone for the first time, meet them for lunch or coffee during the day.
  • Always let your family or friends know before you meet someone the first time. Let them know where, when, and who you will be meeting.
  • Don’t disclose your personal banking information, including account numbers or passwords.

Take Action

  • Report members who request sexual offers in exchange for money.
  • Report members who identify themselves as escorts or prostitutes since this is strictly against our terms of use.
  • Report any member guilty of online harassment.
  • Report anyone who asks for money upfront and before meeting in person. This includes, but is not limited to sob stories asking for money, and individuals needing to pay their cell phone bills.
  • Report members who ask for your address so they can send you gifts.
  • Report members who ask for your bank account details, including account numbers or passwords.
  • Report any members who are looking for individuals under 18 years of age.
  • Report any members who tell you that they are under 18 years of age.
  • If you believe you are a victim of human trafficking or may have information about a potential trafficking situation, please contact the National Human Trafficking Hotline at (888) 373-7888 or via SMS “BEFREE”/233733 (Text “HELP” or “INFO”).
  • To report suspected human trafficking to Federal law enforcement, please call (866) 347-2423.
  • If you or someone you know is in immediate danger, please call 911.

Protecting Your Privacy

  • Never place your personal contact information on your profile such as your full name, phone number, email address, or address.
  • Use a temporary disposable phone number or a Google Voice number for added privacy, only give your main number to people you trust.
  • Don’t place links to other social networks or websites on your Seeking profile, or in your messages to people you just met.
  • Don’t use photos you have posted on other social media sites (Facebook, Instagram, etc.) on your Seeking profile.
  • Do not use the same username on all social networks as it allows unwanted users to find you easily.

Preventing Your Account From Being Hacked:

  • Avoid hacking by using complex passwords on your Seeking account.
  • Check to make sure your primary email account is secure. Anyone with access to your email can retrieve your Seeking password.
  • Never share your account login and password with anyone.

Safety FAQs

Disclaimer: is not an escort service. Seeking in no way, shape, or form supports escorts or prostitutes using our website for personal gain. Profiles suspected of promoting this behavior will be addressed by the Seeking Misconduct Team and banned from our website.